Deal breakers. I like genuine people. I like honest people. I
like people who follow through and do what they say. When it comes to
birth mothers I know these are some of their fears. Daniel and I are
aware of this. Although Panda’s birthmom has chosen to remain distant to
us, I honor what I told her. I want her to know her trust was not
misplaced. And unfortunately, in adoption, agency costs can be deal
breakers. But I know that good agencies exist and those costs are to
help birth mothers in the ways they truly need.